What kind of parent are you? Part V - 13 WTHR Indianapolis

All this week we have talked about "parenting style," and we have heard from so many parents on this issue. Whether a consultant, a drill sergeant, a pushover or helicopter parent, one thing to keep in mind is no style is wrong, and usually, parents have a combination of these styles.

We would now like to answer some of the questions we were asked the most on this topic.

Is it okay to have different parenting styles for different kids?

Psychologist Beth Buckingham said, yes because children have different personalities and temperaments. "It's helpful to make sure children understand your common family values and that each child within the family feels loved and understood," said Buckingham. Family structure such as rules need to be clear.

"How do we keep the bridge we've built with our pre-teen and keep it that way into the teen years?"

Dr. Buckingham says, "The 'bridge' is built! Healthy relationships are everything in guiding your child towards self-confidence and independence. Once parents know the 'bridge' is built, it doesn't disappear."

One final piece of advice from Buckingham, she said to always trust your gut. "Your gut is never wrong. Books, the latest research, well meaning family and friends can be wrong, but not your gut."

Thanks to all of the parents and kids who were a part of this week, and all our viewers at home who emailed and posted questions and comments on our Facebook pages.